Idealization, an assignment

Idealization  1

The setting:

A quiet town or village, set in or close to a forest, and near to the sea. The climate would be moderate, no great extremes.  The populace with be multi cultural with a primarily liberal / "Green" roots.  Businesses and employment would be similarly founded and operated.

My employment:

Alternative health care such as massage, Reiki, a healing center, and other bodywork would be my primary choice. Second would be health care related to mental counseling, guidance, and therapy. Third would be environmental doing conservation, research, or education. Whatever the job, it would be one that I would incorporate into my life with love and joy.

My relationships:

An ability to actively reach out and develop not only friendships, but intimate, and spiritual relationships with others  unrestrained by attachment of others. These relationships would transcend traditional relationships, being open, flexible, mostly unbounded, not ruled by attachment or modern socio-religio dictates.  Deep communication, honesty, release of inhibitive emotions would be essential.

My personal  time:

Other than developing relationships and helping others, working on myself, through Reiki, Qi-gong, meditation, transcendental work, tantra, and modern shamanistic exploration. Sojourns into nature for relaxation and recharging would be important. As my sense of self, connectedness, and well being improved, the amount and quality of time spent with all relations would increase.

A side effect would be an increase in  creative manifesting through the various forms of artistry I enjoy.

My home:

Small easy to maintain designed and built to "Green" standards, would be not just a place to sleep, but symbolic as well to promote mental and spiritual growth. The lot would be primarily natural, or enhanced to provide flora native to the area in support to local fauna.

Creature  relations:

A few adopted pets, perhaps two cats  and a dog. These would need to be of appropriate temperament, obtained from a local shelter.

Long term:

Children, natural or adopted, to not just be progenitors of heredity, but primarily progenitors of  positive humanistic possibilities.

Working / volunteering until physically / mentally unable to do so. The remaining time through death spent amongst / with loving relations, NOT IN A HOME / INSTITUTE.

Funeral / wake:

My body should only be preserved by refrigeration, no embalming. A celebration with remembrance of a life lived, and inspiration for living for those attending. Cremation attended by those whom desire to, with my body only draped or clothed in plain unbleached cotton, no coffin. The ashes should be spread in a natural forest setting near water.